I'm very sorry to hear about your aunt and uncle. Are they both hoarders? It's going to be tough to get them to clean up and get rid of things. I do hope that hey realize that your uncle can't live in that environment and that will encourage a clean up.
You've come a long way and life is an open book for you now. I do hope that you and the girls have some fun plans for spring break.
Sounds like the fog is lifting and things are not how they thought they should be. Oh, well..his loss.
Take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
