It looks like each of you have one big issue that you will need to work through to get to a better place. I hope that your H continues to go and doesn't get frustrated.
I'm glad that he is thankful that you are all together and doesn't take that for granted. Have fun on your ski trip.
I get the resentment. I am trying to work through some of that as well. I am being forgiving, at least as much as I can right now.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together