Thanks snodderly, I am counting my blessing like my healthy children. Some days simply just sick but those days are becoming fewer.

I just got home from a fundraiser with my BFF for a family whose 19 yr old son was killed in a car crash and his brother was badly injured in the crash. Something that is so heartbreaking and completely incompressible puts a lot into perspective. Right or wrong I have a lot to be thankful for.

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending