VG, I have also asked several weeks ago. My W said " well it looks like I am going to have to choose one way or the other. To either go or stay." That answer and the tone of that answer didn't sound too promising to me. I agree that I don't think she even knows what she is going to do. So frustrating.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.