You don't think refusing to help get your kids to school in order to try to prevent her from being as able to leave you is not even more so "handing her the gun she'll use to kill you"?
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.