I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences"

[NYCPeter]

Well folks - it's been around 6 months since I last posted on here. Thought I would give a short update.

Ex and I are still cordial - we get along fine but don't communicate unless it's about the girls. I see the girls a lot, which is great - she asks me to take them as she needs to work and her family isn't able to help her as they did initially.

One of my biggest concerns was staying active in my girls lives - I'm happy to say I am more active than I ever was. I have started dating someone (it's been 3 months) - and we get along great, we're at the stage where we may meet each other's children casually at an event we both attend.

I wanted everyone to know that despite the dark days, you will come out of this whatever the outcome. I didn't want the D and I would have done whatever it took to have prevented it. But those weren't the cards I was dealt.

I wish everyone all the success and happiness in the world. I just wanted to say that however dark it looks today, there will be better days - whatever the outcome.

Peace everyone.