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That's awesome. Keep up the good work.

and Happy B-day!!!


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Turn your trials into your testimonies

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Happy birthday PON!


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M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happy HAPPY BIRTHDAY Power Of Now...you deserve it.

This year is already a great year for you. Keep up the tremendous work you've done and be in the present with your precious children and wife.


Be here now. Receive her love however she gives it, give her your love as best you can...

and celebrate the family life you have created,

and how different it is from what you had growing up. That's an achievement of great worth too.

((( )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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Happy Birthday my man. My birthday wish for you is a long and prosperous marriage.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Happy Birthday, EEhamster!


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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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Happy birthday, PoN! Thanks for visiting my thread!


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.
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Thx all! Amazing night out with family . My son was born on my birthday so always a special day. He got a dirt bike, I got the bill. Such is life :-)

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PON, I have spent a great deal of time reading through your sitch. You give me such hope. You have obviously been through alot. Much more than I have up to this point. You have come out a much better person. Thank you for posting and continuing to check in.


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Grizz thx . I also had the admin delete almost 5 threads because my W snooped my phone and caught me on here calling her crazy.

I'll try to peak at your sitch.

I still have work to do but EE.org really makes me look at life a whole different way.

Advice I could give:

Focus on you
Focus on kids
Give time and space

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Thanks for the advice and thanks ahead of time for taking a look at my sitch.

Your right, it is probably not good for the W to see you call her crazy. More good advice. smile


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BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.)
W move out date: June 8th.
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