Thank you BF! I appreciate your post and your words.
I've asking myself, how could I have married this man? Really.
He emailed me today with a tone that would send anyone straight to court instead of having a peaceful negotiation. It's so bad that it's actually funny.
Then he followed up with a call, saying that he wondered if the tone of his email hadn't been the right one. He said many things, among them that if we had been married in Florida, he wouldn't have had to pay alimony. I said I wanted to make him aware than in Florida I would've filed for divorce due to adultery. He was quiet for a moment, then added that "he saw it as a two way road." I replied that his infidelity was the only vow that was broken. He changed the subject after that.
He also wants to take out any $$ he made when we were separated for 4 months (while he was having the A) and after he moved out in February of last year, even though you all know how he continued "eating his cake." WTF?? This really made me not want to negotiate anything. He's an idiot. I don't like judging or labeling, but there's no other way to call him. I guess there are other ways, but they would be censored on this site.
Anyway, I was all upset but then I went to this awesome dance class and feel much better.
