T our H seem to be on the same time line, hitting this area about 6-9 months post BD. And how can I forget about Mr Grumpy/Depressive pants? I don't see that one much, being separated. That is the one that will stay in a hole for days on end and fear sunlight. So I see that one if there is something going on for the boys at the time. I stay clear of any questions or discussions almost always, so I don't spark anything.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17