Rh~ Thank you for sharing my excitement! I will have to check out that book, sounds like it might be pretty good.
Lovemyfamily~Thank you for posting, I'm glad I can be able to give people hope! There is always hope, trust me there were plenty of times I said to myself I can't take this anymore, but then I would remember this isn't the man I married, and I knew that man was in there somewhere, but it was up to him to find his own way out. Patience is definitely a virtue! LOL I have really valued all the venting I have been able to do here, I would not have made it this far without all of my DB friends!
T~LMAO, you are still the funniest man I've never met! HAHA And have one heck of a memory if you didn't go back and re-read that stuff! Thank you for the "man-spective" on what H said too, I always appreciate those! Also, I will have you know, almost daily I have your quote in my head, "Every problem has a solution. Not every problem is mine to solve." Not just good for MLC, but work as well! In all seriousness, thank you very much T.
WH, TVS,and GALbaby~Thank you all! And yes, if this did go the other way I know I would be ok too, you all have helped teach me that through all of these trying months.
snodderly~Thank you so much for everything over these past 16 months, you are a wonderful, amazing person and I value all of your insight. *hugs*
update~Just a couple of things I wanted to share. The other night (Wednesday)I had decided to go to church, haven't been on a Wednesday evening for awhile. H asked if everything was ok, I said yeah, and was thinking you don't just go to church when things go wrong. lol I didn't say that though. I told him I was concerned for my friend/co-worker (the one who has endometriosis), she's been in a lot of pain the last few days. He actually asked me questions and was engaged in the conversation, so I ended up telling him everything thing from me being at the hospital with her till now.
A little while after the conversation I walked out to the kitchen to check dinner, H came out, hugged me and said, "You're all heart hrm. You are a blessing to everyone who knows you. You don't deserve me." I of course got teary and told him thank you, I hadn't been feeling very worthwhile that day and said you are my H and I love you.
