Clarification: You don't want them to wonder if you'll take them back because you're angry and spiteful -- you want them to feel that you have so much going for you that you are a prize to be won, and can afford to be selective about who gets to share your joy filled life. Make that your goal.
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015