You didn't blow it, dust off and keep going. Friendly distance is good. You want her to feel attraction toward you again and women don't feel that way toward guys in the friend zone, so I think you did fine. Just never point out that they can just come home. You want them to want to come home but wonder if you will have them. Nice and friendly but not readily available -- develop some mystery about what you're up to
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015