Tori, sorry you have to go through the hoops to negotiate the settlement with your H. You said that you lost interest in your M, but it looks like you still going through the stages of grief. I’m only 7 months into my sitch and I feel the same sometimes. When I remember that he said that he is not in love with me anymore, I just want to give up.
I agree with others, I like that you are taking a high road on this. Sometime by willing to lose we actually win more. I’m sure there a great things waiting for you in life.
I really enjoy your reading your posts. Please keep us updated.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state