No, neither of us have started the D process, though she will sometimes say that's where she's leaning if she had to decide today.
When I said, "the findings of my study," I meant changing my attitude to see how she responds in an effort to determine if she's only being nice because she's getting what she wants, e.g., smooth path to D.
T^2 can you link the 37 rules you mentioned?
Big thanks to you both for your help!
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later
