I have to agree with you on the 180 being a bit different for our H's. I do think that when I was fully 180 it did upset H more. My H Also slept in the spare room until 2 weeks ago he decided to come back to the bed, however he's still moving out. Some of the things he does are so strange and I get mixed signals. Was your h open to those hugs? At the very beginning if my DBing within 2 mths h started hugging me and then he stopped its like he was going back to his angry cold way.
Thanks for the advice on the small gestures I will patiently work on them. Patience is definitely not a strong asset of mine
H:37 W:37 M:10 years D:7&5 Bomb:9/7/12. H moves out H moved back 12/23/12-not going well Retrouvaille 1/18 H moving out again 3/14