The only method I have actually been using is the DB and what my coach recommends.
Anything else I have asked for everyones opinion on is simple that.....a question. Nothing more nothing less. As I tried to explain I am simply trying to understand why we do what we do.
I havent applied any other techniques nor have I switched on the drop of a hat. That iskind of what cat was saying in her previous post. I just ASK what people think of something I have read and I get a barrage of 2x4s and a bunch of people accusing me of mixing and matching techniques.
The only person I am listening to as far as technique is laurie my coach. But even thwn I get attacked and accused of misunderstanding plain english or cherry picking.
I just cant understand why....
Honestly when I read the threads of people you guys are 'getting through to' it often sounds to me like they are appeasing just to avoid asking why and getting splinters.
If you dont ask why, then you dont know why, so you cant DB. They just go along withit and keep saying they had an ahaaa moment.
Me, H-34 now 38 W-32 now 35 T-13 now 18 years M-6 now 9 Daughter 3 years now 7 Bomb 11/27/12 - OM 1 year in house separation Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017
