How does it go when you validate her? Does she accept it? Does it mean as much to her when it comes from you instead of an outsider? (my experience is it does not, maybe because I've done it our entire relationship)
Actually I meant to say "when you compliment her".
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
