Question...if sex was a major issue in my m how do I address this.
I am in ic working on this along with self esteem issues, also trying to take care of self, lose weight, exercise (I had been doing this since Nov.) also trying to do things that will test me...having a 'toy' party which I always wanted to do. I am an adventurous person...I think that feelings and emotions played more into our sex life to contribute to lack of, I was the LD s.
Is there other things I am missing...I have SSM on order and should get it next week...
Have not spoken to H about it at any great length except to say that I also thought there was issue in this area. Have not gotten a chance yet to speak on how it must have made him feel to not get these needs met throughout our marriage...have to wait for the right time...why to early for this.
