These things have been with her a long time TVS and HRM, always slithering around in her shadows...guess they are demanding the spotlight and being dealt with now, eh? Have you noticed known, but not too bad, long term things come out to play fully during your H's crisis?
I am continuing to validate, and try really hard to find things to notice and affirm, no matter how small.
W finally applied for a job, funny how a year ago it wasn't any of my business and she was going to do it all herself (and never did anything), fast forward to now and she asked for my help a lot. I really hope she gets it and it helps boost her self-esteem, contributing to the family finances and having to get out and interacting with people.
She has been pretty down and withdrawn again...hopefully the meds will start kicking in some and take the edge off, and hoping for a sunny spring this year...
Other than that, I'm pretty burnt out, lots of absences at work due to flu, so my work load is rather higher than usual...ugh...meh. Backpacking season is getting closer...must.look.forward...big.picture. lol
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
