Time For Me (Part 2)

[Tallula]

I hear you on the Dim/dark, thing. I am pulling back, giving space. I was concerned to do it at first because I saw it as a negative and more of the same, since on of my H's problems was that I was too busy with the kids and life to give him attention. Even now, if I answer the phone and the kids interupt and I deal with them, he gets mad. But, he gets mad if I don't pick up the phone either. So...yea, I don't worry about that.

I am going to Back into reality, myself. We are separated. So, friendly. Kind. Give compliements. Leave first. Don't ask him to do things. Etc.