Nine I am in awe. So glad you checked in. I have about your sitch on the boards I starting coming here right around the time of your W suicide. You are so right about the Shawshank quote we need to remind ourselves its our choice which path to take.

I am copying down your list and rewritting to fit my sitch.

Thanks for giving back to us by your uplifting post

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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13