Regular 2x4's aren't working on SM, he needs 8x8's.
What he needs, is help finding his way, not having it defined for him...
Right or wrong, his thoughts and feelings are his own, and if he needs to try all of the wrong things in order to find the right things, then we, as a Solution Based Support Group, should be asking for a way to help him, instead of smacking him around.
So if 2x4's aren't working, then we should all ask ourselves why we would try an 8x8....
