Same here, I saw all this building of her issues, then bam! Like a light switch was flipped, then BD one month later.
I imagine the pressure builds and builds, then their minds just switch into a different self-protection mode to avoid (oh yes, lots of avoidance) self-destruct/meltdown...well, it's a working theory anyway.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
