I have to go to work but would our responses be different if W was talking about physical abuse in her texts?

Mach, I agree with your last post and happy for your D that things turned out as they did.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss