It's creepy that she would share those things with her teenage daughter. Our children aren't meant to be our emotional or sexual sounding boards. A daughter if not a BFF.

And since you came on the info by snooping, you'll have a hard time addressing it without your D losing trust with you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss