You do tend to be wordy, as you said. This might be better.

"W, I realize how that must have made you feel. I have apologized before for doing that, and I'll apologize again - I'm sorry. However, I'm not going to continue to apologize for everything I've done in the past, for the rest of my life. I don't throw things in your face that you have said or done that made me feel bad, minimized or neglected - and yes there are numerous examples I could give. My point is, I have forgiven and moved on and have no desire to re-open old wounds - and to be honest I simply don't think that's a fair or healthy activity for a relationship."

This ^^^ negated her and became all about you which could be why she keeps bringing things up.

W, you've said something similar before, are you feeling hurt and you think I'm not hearing that or do I continue to do something similar?

See where the conversation takes you but try not to cut it off before it ever gets started.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss