Grow up and man up. None of what you mentioned above makes any sense to a rational person.
Originally Posted By: Bruce
Maybe in ten years, I'll get in touch, S will understand: there was nothing more I could've done, W was too hard on me, all her family is against me, I'm not on my turf, not able to proceed anymore, I gave up.
That's a absolutely WONDERFUL example of maturity and responsibility for your son to use as an example. And if you REALLY believe your left behind son would understand - you are sorely mistaken.
Originally Posted By: Bruce
I don't know, seemed a crazy idea in the beginning, but I'm more and more attracted to it. I could be hired easily, there's demand, sell my things here, only take a plane trip, and in three months all this would be a far away nightmare, I'd be smiling again in the sun.
Or give it 6 more months, just enough for the summer to pass by, and see if W is still as nasty, then decide.
You seem to have learned nothing from anyone here. Look, the choice is yours and it's pretty simple:
Continue to be who you are now and follow your path you outlined above, and I can guarantee you that you'll end up in a similar position in the future.
Or, learn to be a better man and better father and have a MUCH more rewarding relationship with your son as he grows up.
The choice is easy. The work is hard. The only question you have to ask yourself is: are you man enough to do the hard work and become that better man??
