Oh how I understand regret! If only I would have...why can't he let some things go...how can he give up!?!
I keep reminding myself that I can't go back and change anything. I could only see what I could see & he could only see what he could. Here we are. Focusing on regret & my anger at what my H has done will just keep me stuck. I feel it and try to move forward. I keep telling myself I'm not a victim and I am strong.
25 had some amazing things to share, as usual. Keep going's threads have really helped me. 25's threads & comments have been so helpful!!
Early in my sitch I had to admit, that while I view "working on the M differently, my H is/was doing it in his own way. All I can do is focus on me & my changes.
You are doing great!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
