Thanks l'infidele...

I can't wait to read SSM...I know it will make me sad and mad at the same time...but I need to still work on the m to get to the point to try to then work on the sex life...

YEah it is hard with hiring someone...we have had this generator for three-four years and H was going to do all the work himself and he has not...as for the garbage disposal H had told me to have someone else do it.

The generator is our only back up help if we lose power, I live in New England and we have no other form of heat...H may be mad but also maybe happy that it is finally done...and not a stress on him anymore...

I plan on doing the rest of the work on the basement today by myself, finishing cleaning up and putting up some insulation in basement..I had been helping do this before too..

I still am back and forth on the card...I did give him one for Valentine's Day from S that I had previously bought and we are big on cards from child to parent etc...maybe a present would be pursuing but still don't know about the card...I still have time it isn't until the 22nd.

Another question is Holiday...thinking of asing H is we can discuss Easter at some point, over phone seems to work for us...my plan is to offer him to come to house in am to see S in morning, then to my family as he does not have any in state or close by states...then H can visit on Saturday and Sunday evening...H knows that we always go to my parents and have big hunt etc. but I want to see what his thoughts/plans are.


ME:33 H:34
S: 18 months

BD/H left 2/10/2013
14 years together
9 married