Wife privileges reinstated, back in my own bed!

[mamabird]

Haven't checked in in a while. I've been busy with working, kids, taxes, life!
I'd say things are going ok. Not great, but ok. H and I have made some progress and I am very happy with our new therapist. I am getting to the point where I can start to recognize my own patterns which will help me to change them in the lOng run.

My job is probably going to be ending soon, which isn't great from a financial perspective but good from a "getting my life together" perspective. I stil haven't found enough time for me, but I guess that's part of what you sign up for when you have kids. The finances should work out ok. H has a lot of good projects going so one of them should pay out.

I am still trying to work through a lot of my resentment towards H. That seems to be one of my biggest stumbling blocks - just trying to get past all of that. I am sure he is struggling with similar stuff. In MC he said that none of the communication stuff matters, it's really about the infidelity for him. The therapist and I both jumped on that because what H still doesn't fully realize is that there was a lot that led up to the choices I made.

Anyway, we are on a family ski trip this weekend and before H went to sleep he said he was glad we were all together and he didn't take it for granted. All good stuff.