Cake-Eating..I just don't understand

[rosesarered]

So had a strange week. First on Monday, I tripped going down the stairs and sprained my foot. Now I have to a boot - ugh!. Anyway, on Tuesday evening, H was home for dinner. We had a regular night. He left at 9:15. at 9:30 the electricity went out, there were loud explosions and then the lights went out. The transformers had blown down the street and it was so load. So of course the kids heard it and it was so loud. So they came running down the stairs, terrified. They had been playing with my phone earlier in the evening so it was dead. Normally, I would have gone up stairs and charged it but with my foot, I was trying not to walk as much so I didn't bother. SO I walked to my neighbors and to use her phone and see if we could stay with H. The kids really wanted to. When I called, I was standing in my friends living room that was pitch black. Both kids were clinging to me. When I asked H if we could stay with him, he started to push back and told me the kids should be in bed. That the next morning would be a pain, etc. So I took that as more rejection and push back and hung up. Well H did not like that. So we started calling and texting my phone. I had plugged it into my laptop, so when I got back from the neighbors it was back on. So I saw the texts, I couldn't believe how nasty it was. Asking me why I hung up. That I never listen to him, he didn't say no, etc. If we wanted to come over, we could etc. That he can't read my mind. Seriously, what is there to read. I asked him if we could come over because the kids were scared. Whatever. So I was angry that he didn't say yes right away. Even if he doesn't want to be a husband, he should be a father. It was so strange. I remained very calm and didn't' send any nasty texts like he did. I just explained my feelings best as I could. So then H didn't text me all the next day. Finally at 3, I get a text, so how is your foot and when did the electricity come one. Its just so strange. But I am angry and finally am ready to move on.