very very wise words from urworthy........i need to read this again

i constantly beat myself up and go over in my head what i could have done differently

could i have more clearly read the warning signs

could i have been done more for him

i know i did a lot wrong

and so did he

but marriage, to me is for better or worse

sticking with someone throughout (unless of course there is abuse of any kind)

sometimes i'm not sure if "mid life crisis" is a real thing

or is it a label we apply to something to be able to better deal with it

i don't know

i hope, bklyn, you are sleeping well tonight
and urworthy, thanks for those words

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