Sailing, I know what you mean by saying that you are so sad that you can't help her. I feel the same way. My W told me at the beginning of our sitch that I can't "fix" everything. She was upset that I couldn't just listen to her problems and not try to help fix something. This is definitely part of my 180's.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.