Glad you are staying friends with the people that matter to you
Remember to practice the "me too" so it comes out with a sense of honesty and conviction. It won't be a lie, you will be happy, you just dont know it yet!!
M: 9 yrs T: 13 yrs H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs Dbing 12/12 S 1/13 7/13 H moved back in basement. 8/13 #3 born 10/13 still cheating 10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
GOt out kitten last night! No name yet... the boys can't agree. The shelter named her Akela so that may stick if we can't agree in the very near future!
She is black and white and VERY friendly. Purrs all the time! I stayed home from work to kitty-sit today as I felt bad to leave here the first whole day home. AND, I didn't get a lot of sleep as I kept her in my room & she was up and down like a newborn!
Tennis was cancelled AGAIN! Boo. I think I might just go out and pretend I'm going to this meetup and then go a movie or something by myself. I haven't been to the movies for a long time (except for kids' movies, of course).
Spent the whole day w my FIL yesterday as he can't drive due to his recent surgery. We laughed and we cried...we've both lost someone dear to our hearts. He basically encouraged me to move on as his son doesn't give him any hope that he has any intentions of R.
He used the "D" word a lot which hurts my heart to hear (as H has yet to ask for a D directly).
The past two days have done my PMA a lot of good! I hope it will continue as the weather turns warmer (I can't wait for Spring to come)!
Oh, and a friend of a friend owns a bike shop and he is going to custom build me a great road bike for a lot less than I would pay for a new one "out of the box." I am excited about this too.
And, one more thing--I am 1/2 way to my charity goal for the cancer bike event I am riding in this summer--yeah!!!
God is with me every step of the way! I can't wait to see what he has in store for me!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
GOt out kitten last night! No name yet... the boys can't agree. The shelter named her Akela so that may stick if we can't agree in the very near future!
She is black and white and VERY friendly. Purrs all the time! I stayed home from work to kitty-sit today as I felt bad to leave here the first whole day home. AND, I didn't get a lot of sleep as I kept her in my room & she was up and down like a newborn!
Tennis was cancelled AGAIN! Boo. I think I might just go out and pretend I'm going to this meetup and then go a movie or something by myself. I haven't been to the movies for a long time (except for kids' movies, of course).
Spent the whole day w my FIL yesterday as he can't drive due to his recent surgery. We laughed and we cried...we've both lost someone dear to our hearts. He basically encouraged me to move on as his son doesn't give him any hope that he has any intentions of R.
He used the "D" word a lot which hurts my heart to hear (as H has yet to ask for a D directly).
The past two days have done my PMA a lot of good! I hope it will continue as the weather turns warmer (I can't wait for Spring to come)!
Oh, and a friend of a friend owns a bike shop and he is going to custom build me a great road bike for a lot less than I would pay for a new one "out of the box." I am excited about this too.
And, one more thing--I am 1/2 way to my charity goal for the cancer bike event I am riding in this summer--yeah!!!
God is with me every step of the way! I can't wait to see what he has in store for me!!
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
GTO, you continue sounding very positive. Good for you! Yes, do something for you on Saturday. Go see a movie, or go shopping, or whatever brings you joy.
I also hated hearing the word divorce. It still hurts to hear it. But as Wayne Dyer says, you can't get wet from the word water. It's just a word.
Great job on raising money for the event. I also love biking.
God is with you right now, and what you desire is on its way.