SailingAlone, I too worry that the W sees changes in me and then states/ackowledges that I therefore am better because I am not with her. My wife stated this at the original BD, you are not happy with me, therefore you should be happy without me. So I would like to see what answers the others can give us. I certainly accept going back to begging/pleading is not the way, just the worry that I am showing how much she didn't mean to me by being better.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
