8) Make a list of one hundred things you'd like to do. 100 because I want you to list any crazy improbable thing that comes to your mind, no matter how far fetched. It'll be hard to think of 100, so you'll have to come up with some crazy stuff.
I did this once, many many years ago, as part of an exercise in a book I was reading. This was before my marriage was ever in trouble. A few months ago, I stumbled across the list I made. Right there in the middle of the list, it said "Play in a band"! Honestly, I don't EVER remember having that thought before 4 years ago - but apparently I did! And it came true!
