GTO, you continue sounding very positive. Good for you! Yes, do something for you on Saturday. Go see a movie, or go shopping, or whatever brings you joy.
I also hated hearing the word divorce. It still hurts to hear it. But as Wayne Dyer says, you can't get wet from the word water. It's just a word.
Great job on raising money for the event. I also love biking.
God is with you right now, and what you desire is on its way.