Need advice. Here's my story

[Jeack]

Breakdown, Thanks so much for your response. You nailed every question i had. Basically with her upbringing and attachment to her mother and her lack of growing up and knwing what marriage is like, is what doubts me about us. I want a stroong partner in life not to feel like my 3rd child. And yes we throw around the d word constantly. I've learned from my first D that if they say there done. to just get it done because of the financial repercussions. sorta of like calling someones bluff in poker. but then I file (when I don't want to)and then she doesn't sign cause she knows i mean business. guess its sorta like the LRT. so im DBing with out knowing it.

Bu t i need to break our cycle of me caving in being happy she's back and then the resnet kicking in for what she's put me thru.

Once again I truly appreciate your response