Something you said really made me think - it was about our H's being a figment of our imagination.
I have thought about this a lot along the way. Was he real? Were we real?
My answer is a resounding yes.
I think a mistake I made was putting my H up on a pedestal. Maybe I expected too much from him. Maybe we expected too much from each other.
He may not have been perfect, but he was pretty darn good.
B- mom, right now your H is not the man you remember. Only you know deep in your heart what was real between you two. And even if he was that good guy at one time, that doesn't mean you have to take all the hurtful sh!t he is dishing out now.
He may be in his self-induced fantasy world right now, but to borrow a thought from Amy C - reality always eventually comes knocking.
Stay strong. Let us know how you are doing
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
