I still struggle with some old conversations about how I didn't listen to the W or our friends about what was the preferred option or what they wanted to do. I have been made out to simply ignore everyone at all times and just simply do what I want. While I accept that I certainly did this many times with the W, it starts to worry you when you think you treated your friends and other family members this way, especially when you don't see it or remember it that way.


ME:51 W:46
M:25
S:22, S:20
Divorced 16/9/15
BD 10/12
W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12.
Dark since 6/13
I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.