It was an odd deal. We never slept apart, ML 3-5 times per week, acted really normal. She slowly drifted away from any interactions with boys, but was always very affectionate with me. Told me several times throughout the last year she was in love with me and just needed space. No arguing, no threats of leaving, just that she needed space and fun out with friends. We travelled, went out to eat often, vacations, you name it. It was the same as always other than her going out, and not helping around the house and with boys.
I had read about mlc, but wasn't aware of the dbing that I should've been doing. I basically treated her like a princess, and she gave me every indication it was working.
When I saw the improper communication end of December, she said I told you I wasn't in love with you. Went from hot to cold within 2 mins.
M - 42 W- 37 S's - 9,6 M-12 T-14 FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011 ILYBNILWY - march '12 FIL - died jan '13 W Moved out week later