Here's my story. Feedback is welcomed

[Jeack]

Very tuff day today looking for feedback on a few things

1.My wife was coming around after doing some hardcore DBing. texting and saying she wanted to come over house and get in bed, but she quickly turned back to friend mode. I calmly told her that i couldnt handle being friends with my emotional state and if she wanted to be only friends that she can't say things like getting in our bed ect. So i told her that I only wanted to talk as friends if was to move in the direction of reconciliation. If not to leave me alone because I was moving on before she called and texted. Was this a mistake?? Should I have been a friend even though i was getting false hope.

2. I find myself stalking her Facebook page and our bank account. I KNOW I can't snoop which brings me to my next question. Do I delete and block her or just stay off Facebook and leave her as a friend?

3. I know that she doesn't really want a divorce and if I chased her I could get her back. She loves attention. But then things won't change and we'll be in the same boat 9 months from now. I want her to want to come back not because I beg her too.

Thanks in advance for reading and your feedback!