Still no word from H.

Just going about my business. 2nd interview for a job today. My recruiter said they do want to hire me but no offer yet. Patience.

Been doing a lot of thinking about my failures as a W. One thing that was pointed out to me is that I NEVER showed H any respect. A wise gentleman told me recently "Women want love; men want respect." I've been thinking about opportunities I had to show respect and I didn't. I need to think more about how I can start showing respect to H. This was specifically one of his complaints to me -- that neither me nor my sons respected him. So that's one place I can start with my changes.


M: 44
H: 49
4 children from previous R (3 @ home, 1 in college)
M: 4
S: 12/12
H wants to come home: 2/13