Nine, thank you for that post. I'm sorry for all you went through. But it is so important to be reminded that our spouse does not define us, nor does our divorce, marital situation, bad habits, or anything. We get to define ourselves.

I'm so glad for where you are in life now.


Adinva 51, S20, S18
M24 total
6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out
9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50
5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend
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Happiness is a warm puppy.