It wouldnt be the worse thing to say, but to me saying you suspected or already knew. Anything like that is going to lead her to think you were snooping. I dont think it would hurt anything, I just think not saying anything like that will make you look a lot better.


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it