Please Help Me

[woundedfool]

Not really sure if this is ettiquite to hijack a thread. But my situation is similar to Intact's first post.

Wife of soon to be 10 years, I have home after a work trip... she told me she is getting a divorce. Never had probelms before, intamacy was great, but our time was spread thin between our careers recently and I have been totally absent for Jan and Feb (travel for work).

She actually filed for D before I got home. I came across the DR book last week and could not put it down. I have embraced the 180 as well at that list of 37 things (I have it on my phone, and a paper copy with me).

My question is: She moved out 2 weeks ago (again, the day I got home). But last night she came over while we were out and left something at the house for our child. It made me feel pretty uncomfortable (I have totally respected her privacy, made ZERO attempt to go to her apartment) I am trying not to contact her, but can someone help me to address how I deal with telling her I am uncomfortable with how she did that. (or do I just let it go?)