AS hit the nail on the head in regards to [*] suggested you read it to see if any of it described you. I do agree that you should stop cherry picking things from so many different books. How bout focusing your posts on you from now on. The majority of your posts are focused on your W and OM. When you are focused on her you can't work on you.

So SM in the event the your M doesn't work out what exactly are you doing to prepare yourself for it?

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M 44 W 43
S 23 S 15
INILWY 9/11
Divorce Mediation started 3/13
June 30 the day W is moving out