Caughtup, Can you start a thread so that we can provide guidance/assistance to you? Tell us a little about yourself and what you are experiencing.
I would suspect that relationship between his wife and the om is still going strong. Generally, the affair has to die a slow and natural death.
I think he is very wise in keeping the focus on his children and himself. Unfortunately, we are forced to begin taking it one day at a time, one step at a time and starting new lives w/o our spouses participating in them.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
