You're doing well, Mm. Continue to let her lead for now. No pressure or expectations from you.
It seems most of what you've written here, even in your opening post, has been about your interactions since she moved out this past January. Can you tell us a little about how you both got along from BD in March 2012 until then? I see a little about what she was doing, but what about you?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl