well its almost a year since bd and i haven,t heard much in the last couple of months. as it stands our s still wont talk to her and our d,s dont talk to me. on the bright side our grandaughter is doing great and i got a new harley! lol. its great to have my son and baby living with me and were getting a new house next week. i guess i pushed her away with my anger but i could,nt/would,nt be disrespected by someone i gave so much to. we broke up years ago for a while and she found a loser to run to and guess where she is now? at 45 and living with parents with no job well i guess that qualifies. she must really hate herself. whatever the case is she got caught cheating and has to live with that.